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If you are looking for questions such as "How often do you masturbate in a month?" or "What was your age when you initially broke your virginity?"

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Sorry hor! You can maybe find it elsewhere… or maybe in my later blogs =P

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It has got to suck real bad for me to seat in front of my PC blogging on a public holida. BUT, I just need to get this outta my head!

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About an hour ago, I sent out a mass SMS to a selected pool of guy friends. Below was the question that I have prompted:

"Dude, I have a question. When was the last time u brought your mother out? Say for a walk, shopping n etc?"

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I have sent this out to 14 people and I’ve got… 13 RESPONDENTS!!!

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Below are their replies:

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Respondent A        : Went for makan two weeks back i think.

Respondent B        : Hello. Who is this? (Thiew lei!! $*(!#%$&%*^ RUBIN!!) - (Then I replied, identifying myself)

Respondent B        : Can’t remember. Not in a long time. -_-

Respondent C        : Last Sunday. Why?

Respondent D        : Erm, 1 month ago? Why?

Respondent E         : Last month. We went shopping for new year’s clothes.

Respondent F         : Many times. Mom is close to me. Why again?

Respondent G        : Every Sunday for dinner.

Respondent H        : My mother? Usually my dad do that

Respondent I          : Every time she comes to USJ. Y?

Respondent J         : I’m climbing now…

Respondent K        : Since I was a virgin? (THE MOTHER OF ALL ANSWERS!!)

Respondent L         : Huh.. not even a single time.

Respondent M        : (He called back!! For a moment, I was so glad that he actually took the effort to call back just to consult and advice me!!"

KT                         : "Hi there! How are you?"

Respondent M        : "Hi there… who is this?"

KT                         : -_-

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So, since so many of u asked me “WHY”. Here is the reason…

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This morning, my sister came to me and asked me to go to Chin Swee temple in Genting highland together-gether with the family.

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Being the lazy me and not keen at all to hang out with a 4 year old toddler (my niece). I declined without thinking. My sister asked again & again, I declined again & again.

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She then asked me a simple question. When she was asking, I SWEAR TO GOD she almost looked like…

Basically, I declined too. It really pisses her off, I think. Anyway, that question got me into thinking. It really has been a while since I hang out with my mom. GOD I FELT SO GUILTY!!

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So, after a self review and some advices from good friends, I have made a decision to bring my mom out for a good meal this weekend.

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BUT WAIT!!!!! I’VE EARLIER ON GIVEN MY PROMISE TO GO DOWN TO JB THIS WEEKEND!!

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Hence, I took the gamble to cancel off my JB trip and of course, in this situation, pleasing someone else means disappointing the other one.

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So, what else? Kena whack left, right, center lar!! And I got this reminder that I’m poor at decision making. AGAIN, a comment that got me into thinking.

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This call for another round of self-review… and perhaps, I‘m indeed an impulsive decision maker.

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Being an impulsive decision maker will definitely stops me from one day being an effective leader. To my understanding, a leader must be prepared to make critical decisions everyday. YES!! The ability to be DECISIVE BUT NOT HASTY is the utmost important value of a leader. And YES, we all understand that other strengths can be neglected once you have that, right?

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