Self Reminder
Sunday, December 17th, 2006Can’t be helped if your thoughts are not appreciated.
Hence, if it doesn’t make you feel good at the end of the day, don’t even bother concerning.
Can’t be helped if your thoughts are not appreciated.
Hence, if it doesn’t make you feel good at the end of the day, don’t even bother concerning.
"If a man will begin with certainties, he shall end in doubts; but if he will be content to begin with doubts he shall end in certainties." - Sir Francis Bacon
Just got back from a trip to A Famosa, the trip was entertaining. However, my goodness sake… Melaka is sooo HOT that penguins has got a better chance of survival and still capable of tap dancing in the streets of Kuala Lumpur.
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Anyway, it was a fun trip, although before going there are plenty of tectic thinking & planning due to tight timeline. Trip was almost canceled and thank goodness it did not.
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Next stop in mind… CLUB MED!!!
P/s: Club Med Cherating, estimates RM1k++
Club Med Bali, Indonesia, estimates RM 3k++
As seen on The Star Citizen Blog
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As quoted by Mohd Azman - "But now, MPKB will no longer tolerate skimpy outfits, following mounting complaints from the public." But, what is there to tolerate? Why is even there any toleration required for woman’s dressing? Tolerate means to endure without repugnance. If you can’t tolerate a person, you can’t tolerate something in her that is a part of yourself. What isn’t part of ourselves doesn’t disturb us. Even Micheal Jackson sings that "If you wanna make the world a better place bla bla bla" and he goes "I’m starting with the man in the mirror" And, he also noted that "eye-popping” outfits invited undesirable attention. Shouldn’t the men in Kelantan changes their perception so that they won’t be too itchy to eye-pop easily? And, how often does the vast majority visits eateries just to look at waiteresses rather than the food? If you ask me, i don’t see any empirical evidence to even justify this point. And for those retail assistance who are required to promote their latest offerings by wearing them, are these an insult to Islam? I believe that PERCEPTION is the main problem, not dresscode. It is the mentality of the male there that had resulted in such a discriminating law against women. Take this scenario for instance, if you end up covering a woman from head to toe, but the mentality has yet to change, males in Kelantan would soon take note of other parts not being covered up and categorize them as sexually attractive. If they can find revealing knees and elbows attractive, don’t be surprise if they find lips attractive . So what is MPKB going to do then? Ban the cosmetic industry and say "we have a lot of complaints on sexy coloured lipsticks"? or impose a law that women should cover up their face with scarf? If MPKB cannot kick away the entire cosmetic industry in Kelantan, are women then suggested to bring a blender and a straw to eateries so that they can blend their curry laksa and suck their meals while having their lips covered with scarf? If the mentality or the perceptions of Kelantanese males can’t change, even equipping the women with a full suit of battle armors covering head to toe won’t help. I think that before implementing OR even suggesting such discriminating laws, the root cause must first be identified. |
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NUMBER <5>
Lose weight. Settle for heavy breakfast + dinner per day.
NUMBER <4>
Friends are not everything. But they are those who matter most. Participate actively in friends get-together and activities.
NUMBER <3>
Start liaising more with girl’s family members. Go down JB as often & reasonably as I can. Likewise, QF, if you’re reading this, come up as often & reasonably as you can
NUMBER <2>
Treat family better. Reduce rude tone and listen to them more. Play & pay more attention to my rascal niece. wink*
~~~~~drum rolls !! NUMBER <1> !! drum rolls~~~~~
Stick to my money saving formula if not, enhancing it, be discipline with BAJET DUA RIBU TUJUH. Meanwhile, initiate a business plan, work on it on a weekly basis AND materialize it on March 2007. Gentle self-reminder: You can’t earn all by yourself, nor together with others. If you find a gold mine, get others to mine it together with you before other group of miners come, OR, better still, get others to start selling shovels wink* wink*